Sex, food and leave me alone

There seems to be a misconception with some woman that all that a man needs to be happy in a relationship is sex, food and to be left alone. I know that there is a woman version of this argument but I am choosing to speak for the men seeing that I am a man. Yes, us man can see things in a way that may be seem as simple to some people. But like anything in life, it is usually not so simple. Most men love sex, but sex is just a three letters word that can be use to describe a whole range of activities. all sex is not created equal.

 

A couple days ago while hanging out with friends, relationship and sex was a subject of our conversation, and one of them blurred out as a counter-argument to a point that one of the girl there made “Us men we like our back rub, foot massage and dick sucked without asking too.” And it was quiet for a moment then we all busted out laughing at the comment. Funny as it was but there was a valid point to his argument. We love more than just basic sex and food et cetera. And it was obvious that sex, food and to be left alone wasn’t the way to his heart. He then went on and said that as a man it would be nice if the woman would ask him for sex sometimes instead as he would also like to feel wanted in a relationship. Habits can be formed overtime in a relationship and sometimes habits are both good and bad to the relationship in my opinion.

The same Friday night sex with the same positions after a movie can be boring after a while. Change it up a bit chase us man, give us a back massage without asking, get creative with us sexually, et cetera.

 

When it comes to physical touch us men can be very complicated also abut yet very simple. Physical connection in a relationship is very important and a lot of time, we ignore one another unintentionally because of the busy life that we have outside of the house. We tend to push things for later when it come to our partners and relationships sometimes. “we can have sex later” or “I have work in the morning, lets be quick with sex”. And in my opinion later is usually not better and can lead to never.

 

Keeping a relationship alive is the hardest thing to do and should never be taking for granted, it takes a lot of work so keep on working and treat your relationship the same way that you treat your career. And hopefully you will have success in both.

 

I have to apologize for generalizing all of us into one category, I know that as human being, we are different and very complex creature. But, nevertheless when it comes to this argument, I chose to argue about it this way as to save time. If you want more information about how to keep your partner happy, books like “his and her needs”, “five languages of loves” are a great way to start the process, but most importantly talk to you partner openly about this subject.

 

 

6am sex or 6am success?

Sex at 6 in the morning is an intriguingly beautiful idea

yet un-expectably different than we may have dreamed of

a romantic idea we may say, but are you truly romantic at 6am?

Would you be in love with me at 6 in the morning?

Even when you had a long and tiresome night?

Or would you rather go to work? Chase the dreams of success?

 

last night was beautiful

we walked down the beach talking about all kinds of things

how much that we love each other was among one of the many things we visited

we stopped at our favorite ice cream place

we kissed while gently rubbing our noses together

we hugged while slowing making our hips kiss

we didn’t have sex but we loved

is sex a form of love?

And

What is love without sex?

I say incomplete

Sex is love and love is sex

 

Nevertheless, last night was beautiful

I felt real love

but would you still kiss me the same in the morning?

 

6am sex?

is that even a time that you would have sex?

Would you be happy to or begrudgingly do in the hope of keeping me happy?

Would you even wake up for me?

Or would you wake me up instead?

Would you say that we can do that later?

Can I also love you later? Or is that not a thing?

Next time could be the worst time or not the time at all.

Love is free, lets be free also

 

 

6am sex

when we are both probably not looking our best

would you still kiss me the same way that you kissed me last night?

Would you still be romantic?

Would you still be nasty with me sexually?

This time could be the best time or the only time

Now is always the time to love, no matter the time.

I promise to love you always.

 

 

Fighting for home

Let’s go deeper
It has been over 10 months since I last saw you
I mean I dreamed about you a lot
Fantasizes of me and you a lot
But Deep in my mind I never left
Even if I was half way around the world
Buried in sand
fearing for my life
Deep in my mind I was here with you.
Always
Listening to you telling me about your day
What new dress you bought
Who at work annoys you
I was fighting to get back to you
Just to hear your voice
It’s calling to me
They say home is where the heart is
I left my heart with you
My home, my love.
I was fighting for home
But now I’m here, I’m home
Let’s go deeper into our love
As I kiss your soft lips
Feeling you against me
And you hugging me tightly
I picked you up
Rip off your clothes, as You ripped off mine too
Both naked on the bed
Full of love, full of lust
Oh I miss you so much
Let’s go deeper in lust
Deep in your warm embrace
Deep in love
Deep I will go as you look into my eyes
I will always fight to get back to you
You give me purpose
I am deeply in love with youF

That, which never was.

That, which never was.

It’s college and it’s very exciting
Unlike when I first met you, when you weren’t fully a woman yet
Now you are and
More beautiful than ever, and ready for college
With gorgeous smile and giggles to die for.
Your Hair forever beautiful,
I couldn’t help but to touch it every time that I was with you.
Even if that seemed annoying to you sometimes,
I just couldn’t help myself.
You are a beauty of beauties.
Therefore your ex is a dummy dumb and dumb,
For letting you walk away.

I wasn’t so bad myself according to you
I was somewhat tall and handsome

Your words not mine
I even put on some muscle.
Your words again

We didn’t have any classes together
But yet we were always together
Walking the campus ground
Making some jealous
Me getting coffee
You reading with your head slightly tilted to the side
You and I enjoying each other’s company

Even if we are not doing anything
Sometime we would be at the library
Or my car for a sensual kiss after school
Good times !!
We Always ended up naked
with me in you
You on top
You dripping all over my car seats
Good times!!
Those are some of my favorite memories
And
If for some odd reason, I was to be in the hallways at school without you by my side.
Someone would eventually asked?
“Where is your girlfriend?”
And I would have to say something like
“She is not my girlfriend”
Or
“uh we are not there yet”
All sad and true
But we never got there
And my question to you is,
Why?
Why did you push me away?
Was I only good for sex?
Maybe I was too handsome to keep around?
But seriously
Why did you lose me?
Yes I said it
you lost me?
Because I was yours to have
All you had to do is to love me more than you love my genital and lips
Yes
You have lost me to another
Even though she is great and a blessing from God
But I can’t help but to wonder sometimes
What could have been?
You even wanted my child at one time
Do you remember that?
I still wonder if you truly meant that?
or if it was just emotions?
Maybe it just good dick that made you say those things.
Not to be cocky just asking questions
And
Pardon my language
I mean no disrespect
Just being straight forward
Maybe a bit angry too
But
What if I had listen to you then
What if I had release my feelings and emotions deep inside of you?
Juice of love into the warmth of your heart.
Good times!
What could have been?
Over time I had to realize that
In my mind
you and I
We are just one of the greatest things that never happened
And now never will
Maybe it’s my fault or maybe it’s not
But you have lost me forever
To another
And I have lost you too
Sure we had some great sex
We had some great time laughing and talking
I admired you and you admired me sometimes too
And we never happened
But …
I am happy with her
she promise not to lose me
And I hope that you are happy too
For you are precious and deserving of a king to treasure you.
We have truly lost each other
Goodbye Pretty

Dream

Dream
But do they really come true
If so
I would be living like a king
I mean
A fat old and wealthy King
Yes
I would be very fit king too
Olympic champion level of fitness
Oh yes
even if those two contradict each other
Very nice dream so far I say
People swear that dream do come true
Well some do
some do not
but i have big dreams
and i will keep dreaming
Planing
Fail big and start over again
Until my dream comes true

They will never know

This is staying between us, I know 

they will never know, how I feel about you

This is our story full of complication 

A plea from me for you to stay 

How we both feels and want so much more 

But yet, I do understand that we have to be a secret 

One, Just between us 

A secret that pains both of us 

Because we want so much more 

But now you are talking about stoping this 

I know it’s complicated 

they will never know how you feel about me

There is no reason to abandon this 

This is so good and full of emotions 

Without you, the pain will be too much

It is as if you are the only woman on earth for me 

Even though that’s not true 

But my heart feels as if you are the only one 

There is so much more of us to explore

And it is Just between us 

No they will never know how we feel about us 

you told me that you love us 

Isn’t half of us better than none of us 

An ocean Full of lust and mystery 

They will never know about this ocean 

Full of passion and emotion

Do not end this between us 

Because it is just between us 

And we can do complication

Desire

Ever wanted someone so much so

That it hurts and feels so good at the same time 

As if I have been ingested with a shot of espresso.

Just to get my body ready and fuel for overtime.

Truthfully she caught me with her lasso 

Her truth, her beauty was not to be denied

My desire, my guilty need to know 

Her secrets should be mine 

Her walk, her beauty is the best show

Desires in itself is a crime

A crime against the work of art 

From the moment i met her, My heart jumped 

For she was already a desire of my heart 

Forbidden fruit, beautiful and plumped 

With flowers That i want to take apart 

Away, where we both can be stumped

Touch and do what we should not 

Desires that turned into goose-bumped

More is enough, while enough is not…

I kissed and touched her lips and fruits

and a new world opened up to us 

With possibilities and riches as tributes

To her flowers that I hope to nurse 

I imagined us two in solitudes

With desires as our true compass 

Navigating a land of endless loots

Your desire, I so want to witness

Love is a lie

I didn’t think that I loved her that much 

Mostly Because she could never belong to my heart

Me and her 

A beautiful lie that maybe we both told ourselves 

Maybe because it felt so good

She is taken and has been for years 

Me in the picture, that’s just a false dream 

But I may have loved her more than expected 

Even though we’ve only known each other for months now 

I have stolen a few kisses here and there 

And she stole my heartbeat 

Because around her they still beat awkwardly

If not then why does it hurt to watch her walk away from me and what could be 

A friend told me that I loved what could be but not her 

Maybe I did 

But it was real if only for while it lasted 

Was it an infatuation 

Was it lust 

I am not a man of lust

But my logical brain is still affected by her presence 

I can’t think straight 

Earlier I wanted to tell her that I missed her 

But I didn’t tell her 

Maybe love is a strong word for this situation 

I have to tell myself that I didn’t feel how I felt 

That she used me to get the attention of another 

Yes 

This work because being angry is a familiar face to me 

She has his attention now 

And I’m poorer for it 

Because if she truly wanted me she could have been more careful 

She would have protected me

She is smart 

People take care of the things that they care about 

And smart people do not make negligible mistakes with the things they love  

I am not in love with her 

I am angry 

Maybe I was just lonely but I am angry 

Feeling as if I was cheap 

Because using me for attention was a a small way of thinking and will only go so far with him in the long run.

I cautioned her on about our secrecy 

And she ignored it 

Which should have told me to be careful with my heart

Because she didn’t want secrets 

She wanted his attention 

I was used by her 

Or maybe she did not use me at all

An honest mistake

I can’t know for certain that she used me 

If anything is true is that 

Her emotions felt so genuine

So certain and so pure 

Love is it? 

Maybe it is my fault 

I should be angry at myself 

I am known to calculate all variables and predict all possible outcomes

So why am I blaming her

She is still doing something to me because my emotions are all over the place.

I did see the possibility of her making that mistake before it even happened. 

And I didn’t do anything about it

I should have done better to avoid it 

Do more than just warning her, take ownership of the situation and this would have not happen

But I didn’t so why did I not do that

I wanted to feel good and live in the moment

I deserve my pain 

I deserve my lost 

Where is the lie?

My heart still jumped and skip around her 

and I’m sorry for not leading better 

I messed up

Now I need to be a professional around her 

What could have been so genuine 

Love is a beautiful lie 

And I love it 

Even if it hurts 

A beautiful lie 

Accepting what might never be

A love letter to a stranger

To my wife

I invited her into my dream of blissful lust.

To witness a universe build by God just for us

Love is the name of our world so don’t fuss

This could be hard but we will justly adjust

Our universe is triumphant with our trust.

Where we can dream of a love that is robust

Fiery love, enough for us to combust

Love is love there is nothing to discus.

So much love that it will wake us up full of lust.

Let us love and fully enjoy moments of lust

Yes believe it, our love is that, it is just

Eyes to eyes, chest to bust

Open flower open heart

With all my love, forward I will thrust

Together, forever, our love story is a must

To borrow your words, you are the cutest.

What the fuck happened?

Let us be teenagers again

Let’s make arrangement and love each other like that again

Let’s just say fuck everyone, fuck all the expectations and go missing

I miss you and I wonder if you miss me too, let’s kill all the pain

What happened to us, what the fuck is our relationship missing?

Let’s just run away from the daily routine and go anywhere we want

We could do whatever we want for however long we want

We can go on a road trip and Fuck anywhere we want

We could do something dumb and just be as crazy as we want

Let’s make out and just Love on each other as hard as we want

If this is a fucking dream, I don’t want to wake up

I want to hear you say yes and to stay laid up

If I wake up, this beautiful dream might disappear or just fly up

Yes, I’m scared of losing you, so please lets not fuck this up

Don’t be like my ex, promise me you wont give up

Be my gasoline, I’ll be your matches, lets make fire and light this bitch up

Let us be random and just fuck it all up.

Dream

A beautiful dream

A perfect partner

I’m tired and it is late.

I had a long day but I have the perfect partner.

She helps me with my shoes, she helps me undress

She massages my shoulder

Soon after that she left to do her things, giving me some time alone

So I went to the bedroom and lay down

She came to the room to give me comfort

She massaged my legs, my butt, my back, my arms.

she massaged my heart

she kissed my heart

she swallowed my heart

repeatedly

until I released my stress and all of my tensions

I relaxed in bed naked

I fell asleep

I rested better than ever

I love her

She is a beautiful dream

loneliness

How do I express emotions that I have previously expressed over and over?

How do I ask for what I want again and again and again?

Just to be left feeling alone in this fight.

Now I am not alone

But loneliness has been my best comrade.

Me and beautiful lady lonely

We have had so many conversations.

But lately those conversations have been about one subject mostly

You know they say, that communication is a key to a successful relationship

But most people forget about understanding

What does it mean?

To be knowledgeably aware of the character or the nature of a situation

To fully perceive the significance or cause of my grumble

Or so they say

 

But I have to say that

This situation has open my eyes to see things that I have not thought about before

How beautiful lady lonely can be selfish

How the common ground for understanding is forever changing?

How we are not so willing to change with the changes.

How this can make you appreciate the simpler things in your past

Simpler things in your past?

Dangerous ground for a relationship to be on

Can we really change things?

Is the future going to be better?

Why are some things so important to some of us?

What really happens when we get to the end of our rope?

Do we hold on tighter?

Or do we look for other options?

Or can we do both?

Or maybe we do not do either one?

 

Just floating and hopping for the best

I wasn’t made to float

I do not have wings or any special power

But you expect me to just float and wait for a possible save

When we didn’t have to let it get there

 

So like a good soldier, I chose to do nothing

I have become cold

Faking my emotions

Going through the motions

I hate it

I just hope that I never hit the bottom or if I do that it is sudden and painless

I am without wings, falling but does not want to keep falling or to even hit the bottom of this

Whatever this is

You should be my helping hand

But you are not

And I see no way out

I’m sorry

I think, I still love you.

Everyday is our day

What is valentine’s day?

A day to celebrate love, which is what some people would answer.

Do we need a day to celebrate our love?

I hope that I have made you happy more often than that.

And I hope to always do so and better.

 

Valentines day is upon us

And still I want to take the time and say that

I love you so much

Like water for my lips so shall be my thirst to say these words

I love you

Always